THINGS TEENAGER NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT THEIR PARENTS

ARE YOU 13-16 YEAR OLD KID WHO CAN'T UNDERSTAND THEIR PARENTS?

We live in fast pace growing world where generation Gap is increasing just like increasing global warming. Most of us of age group 16-25 are busy in bricking up our careers, which sometimes results in thick distance from our parents. Growing up in the Desi Indian family, most kids often learns to hide everything even from the tip of the needle to their biggest mistakes in the fear of getting discarded from their parents. This creates a huge heap of misunderstanding that always lays in their mind. Passing through this phase of life, we often tends to misunderstand them for many reasons. So here are some things, we need to realize about our parents.

1.) UNDERSTAND THE REAL MEANING OF THEIR WORDS

I can bet with anyone out there who says that, they hadn't heard this line growing up from their parents - "focus on building up your career rather than spending ounce of hours with your friends." And being a 13-16 year old teenager what we've believed? They're just blabbering so much !! But now when we look back, we believe power in their words and power in their experience speaks only for our betterment. This fact cannot get blurred that- good amount of friends in your life plays important role in grounding basic mindset of the person.
Allen bard, the great scientist and chemist, once said that "your personality is the average of the people you hang out with". The people with whom you spend hours owns specific role in building you as a person, either it can drag you towards the beam of positivity or it can put you inside the room of negativity. But while we are passing the age of 13-16, generally we can't discriminate between the right and wrong. So in the owe for our care and protection, they wanted us to keep ourself busy in aiming for better career.

2.) MAKING YOU BETTER AND INDEPENDENT

Most of you , specially girls have been told to learn cooking by their parents. And suprisingly , I've seen many of them taking it as a virtue of feminism and considers cooking as a work of "dependent housewife". But when you'll think wisely you'll understand the real core of this virtue. Cooking, regardless of any gender is an essential thing which everyone should learn in their life in order to be independent. Consider the phase that happened few months ago, when we all were packed inside our homes due to covid-19 and all the servants were gone from our lives for 3-4 months. At such situations, if you're not capable enough to feed your stomach, your case will be gone. That's why our parents teach us to be independent so that we can sustain our lives without any barrier. This case is applied to everyone regardless of any gender.