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THINGS TEENAGER NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT THEIR PARENTS

ARE YOU 13-16 YEAR OLD KID WHO CAN'T UNDERSTAND THEIR PARENTS? We live in fast pace growing world where generation Gap is increasing just like increasing global warming. Most of us of age group 16-25 are busy in bricking up our careers, which sometimes results in thick distance from our parents. Growing up in the Desi Indian family, most kids often learns to hide everything even from the tip of the needle to their biggest mistakes in the fear of getting discarded from their parents. This creates a huge heap of misunderstanding that always lays in their mind. Passing through this phase of life, we often tends to misunderstand them for many reasons. So here are some things, we need to realize about our parents. 1.) UNDERSTAND THE REAL MEANING OF THEIR WORDS I can bet with anyone out there who says that, they hadn't heard this line growing up from their parents - "focus on building up your career rather than spending ounce of hours with your friends." And being a 13-16 y...
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HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVITY !!

STRUGGLING WITH NEGATIVE VIBES AROUND YOU?  HERE ARE THE WAYS.








OUR WORLD OPERATES THROUGH THE ENERGIES AND IT IS THE MIX-UP OF BOTH NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE  VIBES. DUE TO THIS WIDESPREAD PANDEMIC, MOST OF US ARE QUARANTINED BETWEEN  WALLS OF OUR HOUSE. STAYING UP AT OUR HOME FOR SO LONG HAD CREATED A LOT OF BUZZ INSIDE OUR SUB-CONSCIOUS MIND THAT IS LEADING TO MUCH MORE NEGATIVE VIGOUR,  SPECIALLY IN THE AGE GROUP OF 16-25 YEARS.

SO HERE ARE THE WAYS(BY COLLEGE GOING GIRL)THAT HOW TO TACKLE  NEGATIVITY FROM OUR PATH AND STAY FOCUSED .

1.) STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE WHO DEMOTIVATES YOU

 Remember one line - " NOT EVERYONE YOU TRUST, IS YOUR FRIEND". Maintain a distance from people who always points your mistakes in every action.

2.) STAY OUT OF NEGATIVE CONTENT

 No one can deny this fact that most of us spend 50% of our time in social media. Thus the content we see or scroll down plays very important role in building up our basic mindset. The content you see either distress you or upgrade you as a person. So always follow individuals who can uplift your personality development.

3.) WORK ON YOURSELF

Everyone in their life goes through certain phases, either it can be depressing or it can be life-giving. Crossing through these cuts of life, people may tend to develop a negative mindset, very importantly which shouldn't become personality of person. 

Negative people tends to find thorns in rose plant, ignoring the beautiful flowers it can give. So work on becoming the gardener who can appreciate the glory of the flower, and should not cry for the thorns.

4.) YOU NEED TO KEEP YOUR MIND CALM

The world is  full of negative vigour that will always try to pull you down and creates a waves of disturbance in your mind. But admist it, most importantly you need to keep yourself calm and composed, when you can't change the people around you. The person who keeps finding negatives in everything will never change his mindset, but surely what you can do is that- stay focused, and positive. Trying meditation and making good books friends for while can help.

5.) CUTTING OFF

It becomes really really difficult when our close ones turns their path towards the beam of negativity. In this case , you need to make them understand the value and power of being optimistic. We should goes through sometimes ,Understands the fact that everybody has a phase. But it doesn't means that they can ruin your peace of mind. The moment it starts affecting your mental peace, then yess dear! It's a red flag.




THESE ARE WAYS I FIND USEFUL WHENEVER I FACE SUCH DIFFICULTIES



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